The Importance of Focus in Dialogue

Some people think there is important dialogue and unimportant dialogue. In truth, every dialogue is important as long as it is called a dialogue. What matters is that you know people.

No subject affects people without a reason.
Some subjects stir up old subjects.
Some opinions were formed because of an important need, and for that reason the dialogue is not presented in the right way.

The reasons for dialogue: There are always reasons for dialogue, as we have seen. They are the things that make people talk, and each person focuses inwardly on their own aim in speaking. This is what makes speakers suffer from accumulated problems and from problems of differing opinions. When you move to your idea and begin speaking about it, always remember: the more acceptable your idea is to you, the more the other person connects with you and your idea to the same degree that you accept it. Dialogue, the cause and the solution: As is clear, dialogue and difference are the cause of disagreement. Likewise, dialogue is the way to reach a solution. The reason for the conversation is the problem, and it is also the solution. How can it become a solution? Some people choose the priority that suits them and insist on it, which makes them focus on one subject and one idea, while the other does not engage well and insists on their own idea and opinion. The other person's idea makes them focus on what they are saying, not on what they hear. The solution is that you accept listening to their idea, and accept connecting with them on the basis of their idea. After you finish listening and responding to their idea, you can The challenge: The challenge is that their idea may not be acceptable to you. To be able to build a stable relationship, you must work on accepting large parts of their idea.

The Importance of Focus in Dialogue

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